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Amy Avalon's avatar

This was truly beautiful and touched my heart deeply. I've never been one of the girls - in fact, the majority of my most painful moments in life happened because of what women and girls have said and done to make me feel worthless and shunned. I know this happens to many girls and women because all of us are hurting in so many ways, but it doesn't make it all that much easier for me to feel like I belong or can trust. Your post helped me to feel like I do belong in plenty of places, I just have to find them, and heck, if Frida Kahlo and Beth Kempton (and so many other awesome people) feel the same, then maybe my "weirdness" is a gift after all! Thank you. :)

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Dea Devidas's avatar

This hits right in that soft spot of the soul where we keep all our 3 AM questions. You know that moment when you're staring at the moon, asking yourself "do I even have friends?" while your ego whispers "it's not a big deal" (but oh honey, it is).

The way you've captured that quiet solitude... it's like you've read the starmap of my own journey. And your mother's words? "More friends will come. There is no rush." - well, excuse me while I cry into my retrograde coffee. That's the kind of wisdom that slaps you first, then hugs you tight.

And Holly! Oh, how beautifully you've shown that the deepest connections sometimes bloom in the most unexpected cosmic gardens - like those resilient plants that crack through concrete and say "deal with it, universe." My dearest souls are also scattered across time zones like someone spilled friendship stardust all over Google Maps, yet somehow these connections breathe and pulse despite the miles.

You write like we're sharing wine at 2 AM, when all masks dissolve and only truth remains. Thank you for reminding us we're not alone in this dance between "I'm totally fine" and "where are my people?"

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